Wedding Ceremony

Ceremony in the Gardens

Crest Hollow Country Club

Cocktail Hour - Poolside

Crest Hollow Country Club - Emerald Room

Reception - Emerald Room

Reception

Our Wedding

It all began on a spring afternoon at an Easter Egg Hunt fundraiser hosted by Jazmine’s Aunt Jeanette and Uncle Baron. While families laughed and children searched for eggs, James happened to stop by Martha Avenue Park to fly his drone and see what all the excitement was about. The event lasted nearly four hours, and by the time it wrapped up, Jazmine — who had driven all the way from Far Rockaway to Bellport — was helping clean up.Meanwhile, on the basketball court, Uncle Baron and Jazmine’s cousin Demetrious struck up a conversation with James. As James shared pieces of his story, Uncle Baron was struck by his sincerity, character, and warmth. For context — Uncle Baron does not recommend men for Jazmine. In fact, “overprotective” doesn’t even begin to describe it. But something about James made him pause. Uncle Baron developed the conscious thought that “I want this guy to meet my niece.” It was the first time he had ever thought that.Jazmine hadn’t actually met James face-to-face yet. Before introductions could even happen, Uncle Baron noticed that Jazmine had a flat tire — the day before Easter, with a long drive back to Far Rockaway ahead of her. Ready to panic, she was quickly put at ease when James appeared with a small air compressor he kept in his car — because, as they later discovered, they both had an unprecedented amount of experience with flat tires. He inflated her tire, and she made it safely to the shop.As her tire was being repaired, Uncle Baron called her nervously asking, “Can I give James your number?” He explained how impressed he was by James and how he felt compelled to make the introduction. Jazmine agreed — and James reached out that same day.They talked all that evening. And the next day. And the next.James eventually asked if he could take her on a date, but Jazmine — guarded from past experiences — hesitated. Still, there was something undeniably special about him.Something gentle… sincere… steady. So she said, “You can take me to breakfast… after church…. on Easter Sunday.”He said yes immediately.Their first date lasted hours. Talking about life. Family. Dreams. His daughter. Her apartment in Far Rockaway. His new place in Bellport. Their worlds beginning, unknowingly, to intertwine.At that time, they lived an hour and 30 minutes apart. So if they wanted their connection to grow, someone had to be willing to make the drive. And like a true gentleman, James drove to the city every weekend for four months straight.Those weekends became a beautiful collection of memories:paint-and-sip nights that became one of their favorite shared pastimes, amateur stand-up comedy in a tiny basement speakeasy Jazmine found online, ferry rides at all hours because it was the best $4.50 boat ride New York had to offer (and yes — they sell wine), scooter rides across bridges just for fun, rum punch on Far Rockaway Beach under summer skies, sharing stories, secrets, and eventually… their first “I love you.”Summer faded, and with it came back-to-school season — including Jazmine’s first ever school-shopping trip with James and his daughter, Liah. Six hours in stores felt like a marathon, but looking back, they realized it was the first glimpse of how beautifully their lives would blend. It was the moment God began whispering what was to come:compassion, compromise, communication, and a love expanding to hold not just James and Jazmine, but James, Liah, and Jazmine — a family in the making.Soon after, Jazmine found herself spending more weekends in Bellport than in Far Rockaway. Eventually, she had just as many clothes in James’s closet as her own. James cleared a dresser for her, gave her half his closet, and before long, the idea of moving in together felt natural.One December evening, while decorating James’s apartment for the holidays, Jazmine asked what he thought about her officially moving in. James didn’t hesitate — he smiled and said he would love that, but that he wanted to talk to Liah first.Then came Christmas.After all the gifts were opened, James handed Jazmine one last small box. Inside was a puzzle piece shaped like a key that read, “My missing piece,” along with a key to their apartment — and to their future. That same weekend, they packed up her one-bedroom, single-girl apartment in Far Rockaway and moved her into what would soon become their first family home in Bellport, where they began building the next chapter of their lives together.The following year passed in a heartbeat — full of love, laughter, routines, and adventures. Before they knew it, it was back-to-school shopping again and talk of marriage began to feel… real.That Christmas, surrounded by Jazmine’s family in Ohio at Grandma Martha’s house, James quietly asked Jazmine’s parents for their blessing to marry their daughter. They said yes.Shortly after, wedding planning began — the beautiful preparation for the journey of forever.However, like every great love story, theirs encountered a season that tested them. After the magic of the honeymoon phase settled into the realities of day-to-day life, they found themselves learning what it truly meant to blend two separate journeys, two histories, and two ways of thinking into one shared path. Communication became their greatest challenge — not because they lacked love, but because both were used to standing strong in their own perspectives, wanting to lead, wanting to be right, wanting to be understood.And so, in the natural ebb and flow of life, their fairytale seemed to come to an end. They stepped away from each other, and their story paused — not broken, simply resting. Because true love doesn’t die, and what God ordains cannot be undone by human hands.During those five months apart, they prayed separately. They healed quietly. They unpacked old hurts they hadn’t realized they were carrying into the relationship. They released what needed to be released so that something stronger — something lasting — could take root.When they found their way back to each other, they returned different. Softer. Wiser. Ready. They sat down and had the kind of conversations that build real relationships — honest, vulnerable, unguarded. They began to see themselves not as two individuals trying to win, but as two teammates on the same side, committed to building something sacred.And together they remembered: when God sends you a partner, He intends for you to honor that blessing with gratitude, patience, kindness, and humility.So they made a conscious choice — to place God at the center of every conversation, every decision, every plan. They reconnected with Him individually and as a couple. And the same God who wrote their beginning wrote their reunion — this time fastening their love with His own hands, binding it with grace and purpose.From that moment on, they stepped back into their future with renewed faith, restored hearts, and a love refined by God’s timing. And just like that, they were wedding planning again — dreaming together once more about the beautiful life that awaited them.On May 23, 2026, James and Jazmine will officially join their lives in marriage.A union built by God, strengthened by faith, filled with adventure, woven with grace, and supported by a village of family and friends who have cheered for them from the very beginning.Here’s to forever — the J&amp;J way.With love, gratitude, and God’s favor guiding every step.

Our Love Story

Our Story

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Kendall Kendrick

Edna Kendrick

James Dillingham

Martha Dillingham and Mr Jacob

Kenneth Kapadobi

Lisa Miller

Darryl Kendrick

Joyce Kendrick 

Josephine Gonzalez 

Tiana Miller 

Ashlee Dillingham

Stephanie Jackson

Chloe Kemp

Joey Friedman

Tyliah Miller

Ahmaniya Permenter

Keziah Samuel 

Jason Poyner

Antoine Miller

Alan Fitzgerald

Will Thomas

Trevor Thomas

Azari Miller 

Vernell Anthony Dillingham Jr.

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🖤 Black Tie Attire Guide👔 For Men — Traditional Black Tie (Preferred)Preferred Look:A classic tuxedo with a formal white dress shirt, black bow tie, and polished black dress shoes.👔 For Men — Acceptable Black Tie Alternatives (No Tuxedo)Acceptable Alternative (If a Tuxedo Is Not Available):A crisp, formal button-down dress shirt paired with tailored black dress pants is acceptable, provided the overall look remains elevated and formal.Guidelines for This Option:1. Shirt should be solid white or black (no patterns or casual fabrics)2. Pants should be formal dress trousers (not chinos or casual slacks)3. Shirt must be tucked in and pressedDress shoes required (black leather or similarly formal footwear)Optional Enhancements (Encouraged):SuspendersWaistcoat (vest)Bow tie or formal necktieJacket or blazer if availablePlease Avoid:Jeans, short-sleeve shirts, sneakers, casual belts, or untucked shirts.👗 For Women — Black TieWhat to Wear:An elegant floor-length gown or very formal evening dress in luxe fabrics such as satin, silk, chiffon, velvet, or sequins.💎 Accessories &amp; Finishing TouchesThink: polished, glamorous, and intentional from head to toe.The ceremony will take place in the Garden 🌿Please note that guest seating will be set up on grass, so we kindly recommend choosing footwear accordingly.

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Please note the following: Check-in Time: 3:00PM - Early arrivals are on a request basis and are not guaranteed, however the hotel will attempt to accommodate all special request. Check-out Time: 11:00AM - Late checkout must be approved by the front desk and are subject to additional charges. **A valid credit card and identification is required by all guests at the time of check-in** *****Link to book room under our room block******Copy and Paste link below into browser******** Link: https://be.synxis.com/?adult=2&amp;arrive=2026-05-23&amp;chain=14549&amp;child=0&amp;currency=USD&amp;depart=2026-05-24&amp;group=2605KENDRI&amp;hotel=11937&amp;level=hotel&amp;locale=en-US&amp;productcurrency=USD&amp;rooms=1 ****Other Nearby Hotels to consider that are NOT part of the wedding but are STILL close and budget friendly**** 1. Holiday Inn Plainview - Long Island IHG - 215 Sunnyside Blvd, Plainview, NY 11803 - <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=Holiday+Inn+Plainview&amp;oq=holiday+i&amp;gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqDggCEEUYJxg7GIAEGIoFMgYIABBFGDkyEwgBEC4YxwEYsQMYyQMY0QMYgAQyDggCEEUYJxg7GIAEGIoFMg0IAxAAGJIDGIAEGIoFMg0IBBAAGJIDGIAEGIoFMhwIBRAuGIMBGK8BGMcBGLEDGIAEGJgFGJkFGJ4FMg0IBhAuGIMBGLEDGIAEMhAIBxAuGMcBGLEDGNEDGIAEMg0ICBAuGIMBGLEDGIAEMgcICRAAGI8C0gELMTAzNjQ4ajFqMTWoAgiwAgHxBeEKN6Ff0d63&amp;sourceid=chrome&amp;ie=UTF-8#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(516) 349-7400</a> 2. SureStay Plus Best Western by Woodbury Inn - 7940 Jericho Tpke, Woodbury, NY 11797 - <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=SureStay+Plus+Best+Western+by+Woodbury+Inn+-+7940+Jericho+Tpke%2C+Woodbury%2C+NY+11797&amp;sca_esv=d95b60ce6566ebe8&amp;sxsrf=AE3TifPLtynhgzmcqydlXrLKV3ggEwuTAg%3A1766378270074&amp;ei=HstIaYSfBMPT5NoPzuTw2QQ&amp;ved=0ahUKEwiEps7qr9CRAxXDKVkFHU4yPEsQ4dUDCBE&amp;uact=5&amp;oq=SureStay+Plus+Best+Western+by+Woodbury+Inn+-+7940+Jericho+Tpke%2C+Woodbury%2C+NY+11797&amp;gs_lp=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&amp;sclient=gws-wiz-serp#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(516) 921-6900</a> 3. Days Inn by Wyndham Woodbury Long Island - 8030 Jericho Turnpike, Woodbury, NY 11797 - <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=Days+Inn+by+Wyndham+Woodbury+Long+Island+-+8030+Jericho+Turnpike%2C+Woodbury%2C+NY+11797&amp;sca_esv=d95b60ce6566ebe8&amp;sxsrf=AE3TifNp7AIPiMPhsrDIaGN1OjSbBsRXFA%3A1766378335409&amp;ei=X8tIaerWGNOjiLMPupGR4As&amp;ved=0ahUKEwiqguKJsNCRAxXTEWIAHbpIBLwQ4dUDCBE&amp;uact=5&amp;oq=Days+Inn+by+Wyndham+Woodbury+Long+Island+-+8030+Jericho+Turnpike%2C+Woodbury%2C+NY+11797&amp;gs_lp=Egxnd3Mtd2l6LXNlcnAiVERheXMgSW5uIGJ5IFd5bmRoYW0gV29vZGJ1cnkgTG9uZyBJc2xhbmQgLSA4MDMwIEplcmljaG8gVHVybnBpa2UsIFdvb2RidXJ5LCBOWSAxMTc5NzICECZIwR9Qwg9Y3BVwBngBkAEAmAFnoAFnqgEDMC4xuAEDyAEA-AEB-AECmAIHoAKCAagCD8ICChAAGLADGNYEGEfCAhYQIxiABBigBhgnGIoFGOoCGKsGGN0FwgINECMYgAQYJxiKBRjqAsICBxAjGCcY6gLCAikQLhiABBiRAhi0AhjnBhjHARiYBRjIAxiZBRiKBRjqAhieBRivAdgBAZgDB_EF9el_8DQI-72IBgGQBgi6BgYIARABGAiSBwM2LjGgB9sBsgcDMC4xuAdowgcFMS40LjLIBxSACAA&amp;sclient=gws-wiz-serp#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(516) 921-8500</a> 4. Hilton Garden Inn Melville - 1575 Round Swamp Rd, Plainview, NY 11803 - <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=Hilton+Garden+Inn+Melville+-+1575+Round+Swamp+Rd%2C+Plainview%2C+NY+11803+&amp;sca_esv=d95b60ce6566ebe8&amp;sxsrf=AE3TifMb_woCZVlopE2Dh_Pn7gJzZxcfeQ%3A1766378367735&amp;ei=f8tIaaHDLKuf5NoP-5zz2QU&amp;ved=0ahUKEwjh_paZsNCRAxWrD1kFHXvOPFsQ4dUDCBE&amp;uact=5&amp;oq=Hilton+Garden+Inn+Melville+-+1575+Round+Swamp+Rd%2C+Plainview%2C+NY+11803+&amp;gs_lp=Egxnd3Mtd2l6LXNlcnAiRkhpbHRvbiBHYXJkZW4gSW5uIE1lbHZpbGxlIC0gMTU3NSBSb3VuZCBTd2FtcCBSZCwgUGxhaW52aWV3LCBOWSAxMTgwMyAyAhAmSJMjUPwKWKcWcAV4AZABAJgBdKABdKoBAzAuMbgBA8gBAPgBAfgBApgCBqACiwGoAhDCAgoQABiwAxjWBBhHwgIWECMYgAQYoAYYJxiKBRjqAhirBhjdBcICBxAjGCcY6gLCAg0QIxiABBgnGIoFGOoCwgIgEC4YgAQYkQIYtAIY5wYYxwEYyAMYigUY6gIYrwHYAQHCAikQLhiABBiRAhi0AhjnBhjHARiYBRjIAxiZBRiKBRjqAhieBRivAdgBAZgDCPEFeytx-qN_NdKIBgGQBgi6BgYIARABGAiSBwM1LjGgB8wBsgcDMC4xuAd4wgcFMC40LjLIBw-ACAA&amp;sclient=gws-wiz-serp#" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">(516) 755-5552</a>

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Travel

Attraction: Long Island Children’s MuseumAddress: 11 Davis Avenue Garden City, NY 11530Distance from Hotel: 9.66 Attraction: Roosevelt Field MallAddress: 630 Old Country Road, Garden City, New York 11530Distance from Hotel: 9.37 Attraction: Walt Whitman MallAddress: 160 Walt Whitman Road, Melville NYDistance from Hotel: 4.52 Attraction: Paramount TheaterAddress: 370 New York Ave, Huntington NYDistance from Hotel: 5.72 Attraction: Old Westbury GardensAddress: 71 Old Westbury RoadDistance from Hotel: 7.62 Attraction: Club PilatesAddress: 7947 Jericho Turnpike, Woodbury NY 11797Distance from Hotel: 0.61 Attraction: Waterfront CenterAddress: 1 West End Avenue, Oyster Bay NYDistance from Hotel: 6.6 Attraction: AdventurelandAddress: 2245 Broadhollow RoadDistance from Hotel: 7.02 Attraction: White Post FarmsAddress: 250 Old Country Road,Distance from the Hotel: 5.73 Attraction: Bethpage RestorationAddress: 1303 Round Swamp RoadPhone Number: 516-572-8401Distance from the Hotel: 5.22 Attraction: Jones Beach TheaterAddress: 895 Bay Pkwy, Wantagh, NY 11793Distance from the Hotel: 16.74 Attraction: Sagamore Bridge ClubAddress: 6901 Jericho Turnpike #105, Syosset, NY 1179Distance from Hotel: 11.78

Restaurant: Blackstone Steakhouse Address: 10 Pinelawn Road, Melville, NY 11747Phone: 631-271-7780Distance: 5.5 Restaurant: Rare650Address: 650 Jericho Turnpike, Syosset, NY 11791Phone: 516-496-8000Distance: 0.67 Restaurant: VolpeAddress: 7725 Jericho Turnpike, Woodbury, New York 11797Phone: 516-802-7501Distance: 0.06 Restaurant: Opus SteakhouseAddress: 4 Old Jericho Turnpike, Jericho NY 11753Phone: 516-605-1400Distance: 3.38 Restaurant: One10 RestaurantAddress: 569 Broadhollow Road, Melville NY 11747Phone: 631-694-3333Distance: 5.5 Restaurant: The HalstonAddress: 400 Broadhollow Road, Melville NY 11747Phone: 631-755-5777Distance: 6m Restaurant: Insignia SteakhouseAddress: 610 Smithtown Bypass, Smithtown NY 11787Phone: 631-656-8100Distance: 9.5m

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